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About Couples & Marriage Counseling

Most couples wait until something feels wrong before seeking help. Arguments increase, distance grows, and feeling understood gets harder. Marriage counseling in Austin, TX, directly addresses these issues, improves communication, and helps couples make realistic changes. At Louis Laves-Webb, LCSW-S, LPC-S & Associates, we guide couples through conflict, rebuild trust, and help them move forward with clarity.

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"Very helpful and personable. Been seeing him for couple's counseling for several years and he's helped us through some tough times."

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What Couples Gain from Marriage Counseling

Marriage counseling focuses on practical ways couples interact daily. Clients often feel stuck in recurring arguments or unsure how to move forward. Most couples see improvement after 8 to 12 sessions, with fewer conflicts, a stronger emotional connection, and reduced stress. Over time, couples develop healthier ways to handle challenges together.

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Phase 1: History Taking

Before beginning EMDR, your trauma therapist will get to know more about your experiences and symptoms. This step is for you to share about events in your past that may be affecting your current mindset.

Phase 2: Preparation

This stage is about ensuring your readiness for EMDR. Even though EMDR therapy for trauma is completely safe, it can be problematic for individuals who commonly experience dissociation. As a safeguard, your trauma therapist will work with you to create your own “calm place” to concentrate on if you feel distressed.

Phase 3: Assessment

It’s now time to choose a target to be reprocessed during your next few sessions. In doing so, you’ll need to identify a vivid image related to the memory, a negative cognition about yourself associated with it, and emotions and bodily sensations that accompany both. Your therapist will then have you challenge that negative cognition with a cognitive one. They will have you rate how true your positive cognition feels and how much distress the target memory causes you on a scale from 1-10.

Phase 4: Desensitization

This is where Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing comes into play. When you feel ready, your therapist will guide you to process your negative feelings and memories using bilateral eye movements to facilitate the brain’s healing process. This will help to ground you and take more directed focus on the thoughts, feelings, and images associated with your target. Every minute or so, your therapist will check in on what you’ve noticed and ask you to rate how much discomfort you’re now feeling. When you no longer report distress related to your targeted memory, you move onto the next step.

Phase 5: Installation

Next, your attention will be brought back to the positive cognition you identified earlier. Your trauma/PTSD therapist will recheck how true this belief now feels. The goal is to get this belief to feel like it’s 100 percent true.

Phase 6: Body Scan

You will now be asked to check your body for any areas of tension in your body caused by the target memory. Are your teeth clenched? Is your chest tight? Any uncomfortable physical sensations will be reprocessed using the same procedure as before until you can think of the target memory without feeling any tension.

Phase 7: Closure

At the end of every session, your trauma counselor will make sure that you are leaving feeling more relaxed than when you arrived. If you are feeling agitated, they will lead you through self-calming techniques until you regain your sense of control.

Phase 8: Reevaluation

At the beginning of each subsequent session, your therapist will ask you questions to ensure your positive beliefs have been maintained. This will also help them to identify any new problem areas that may need to be targeted.

EMDR therapy for trauma is considered a success once you are able to bring up memories of trauma without feeling the distress that brought you to therapy. Your trauma therapist will also provide you with the techniques and skills you need going forward to deal with upsetting feelings.

Why People Start Marriage Counseling

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Feeling Disconnected

Many couples seek marriage counseling in Austin because they feel disconnected. There may be no obvious issue, but the relationship feels distant or routine. Counseling rebuilds emotional intimacy, strengthens connection, and makes daily interactions more meaningful.

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Communication Breakdown

Communication breakdowns are a common reason couples pursue therapy. Conversations lead to frustration, avoidance, or misunderstanding. Therapy improves communication, clarifies understanding, and prevents conflict escalation.

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Ongoing Conflict

Some couples stay trapped in unresolved arguments. This pattern builds tension, resentment, and emotional distance. Relationship counseling identifies unhealthy cycles, reduces conflict, and introduces practical strategies for better conversations.

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Trust and Commitment Concerns

Concerns around trust, commitment, or long-term compatibility often bring couples into counseling. These issues can stem from past experiences, uncertainty about the future, or a sense of being unsupported in the relationship. Therapy helps partners explore concerns, rebuild trust, and move forward with more clarity.

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Infidelity Recovery Counseling

After infidelity, many couples struggle with trust, communication, and emotional safety. Therapy provides guidance on processing what happened, understanding underlying patterns, and deciding how to move forward. The focus is on rebuilding connections or creating a clear path ahead.

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Life Transitions

Major life transitions can put even strong relationships under pressure. Career changes, relocation, or becoming parents can shift priorities and create stress. Counseling helps couples stay aligned, improve communication, and navigate challenges without losing connection.

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Premarital Counseling

Couples often begin premarital counseling to prepare for a long-term commitment. This work focuses on communication, finances, expectations, and future planning. It helps partners enter marriage with more clarity, stronger alignment, and fewer surprises.

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Sex-Positive Couples Therapy

Concerns around intimacy or sex life are a common reason couples seek therapy. Many partners struggle to talk openly about needs or boundaries. This work supports honest conversations, deeper intimacy, and a stronger emotional and physical connection.

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Co-Parenting Support

Parenting can introduce new stress into a relationship, especially when communication breaks down. Differences in parenting styles or responsibilities often lead couples to seek support. Therapy helps partners stay aligned, reduce conflict, and create a more stable environment for their family.

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Neurodiverse Relationships

Neurodiversity can impact communication, emotional expression, and daily routines. Some couples seek counseling to better understand these differences. Therapy helps build empathy, improve communication, and create strategies that support both partners.

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High Conflict Couples Counseling

Some relationships fall into cycles of intense arguments and emotional reactivity. These patterns can feel difficult to break without outside support. Therapy focuses on emotional regulation, conflict management, and creating new ways to respond under stress.

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Intensive Couples Counseling

Couples who feel stuck or overwhelmed may benefit from intensive couples sessions. This approach allows for deeper work in a shorter timeframe. It helps partners address core issues, gain clarity, and begin making meaningful changes more quickly.

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Trauma and Past Experiences

Past experiences or trauma can shape how partners communicate, react, and connect. These patterns often show up during conflict or stress. Therapy helps couples understand these dynamics, build empathy, and develop healthier ways to relate to one another.

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Divorce Discernment

Some couples enter counseling while considering divorce, but feel uncertain about the decision. Therapy provides a structured space to explore options, understand patterns, and gain clarity about what comes next.

Our Marriage Therapy Methodologies

Imago Therapy

Imago Therapy focuses on how past experiences shape current relationship patterns and communication. It helps couples move beyond blame by building empathy and understanding between partners. Through guided conversations, partners learn to better understand each other’s needs and emotional responses.

Why it matters to you: it helps break repeated patterns and creates more meaningful, connected communication.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) centers on strengthening the emotional bond between partners. It helps couples identify negative cycles and express deeper needs more constructively. This approach supports more secure attachment and more supportive responses during conflict.

Why it matters to you: It helps rebuild trust and creates a stronger, more stable emotional connection over time.

Gottman Method

The Gottman Method is based on decades of research and focuses on practical ways to improve relationship satisfaction. It helps couples manage conflict, strengthen communication, and build a deeper sense of connection. The approach uses structured tools to improve friendship, intimacy, and shared meaning.

Why it matters to you: It gives you clear, proven strategies to improve communication and build a more stable, lasting relationship.

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About Our Therapists

At Louis Laves-Webb, LCSW-S, LPC-S & Associates, we connect clients with many therapists who bring diverse backgrounds, experiences, specialties, and specific training to their practice. Our team includes licensed professionals trained in marriage counseling, couples therapy, and family therapy, ensuring that every couple receives tailored support based on their unique relationship dynamics. Learn more about our therapists below.

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Louis Laves-Webb, LCSW-S, LPC-S

Louis Laves-Webb, LCSW-S, LPC-S, is a seasoned psychotherapist and clinical supervisor with over two decades of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate emotional challenges through compassionate, evidence-based therapy.

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Kalee Gower, LCSW-S

Kalee Gower, LCSW-S, is a licensed clinical social worker who blends curiosity, transparency, and evidence-based techniques to support clients in exploring identity, relationships, and personal growth.

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Robbie Price, LPC

Robbie Price, LPC, is a relationally focused therapist who specializes in anxiety, depression, trauma, and addiction, using psychodynamic and interpersonal approaches to help individuals, couples, and groups achieve greater self-awareness and emotional well-being.

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How Does A Marriage Counselor Differ From a Family Therapist?

A marriage counselor focuses on the relationship between partners. This work helps couples improve communication, reduce conflict, and rebuild emotional intimacy when things feel strained or disconnected. Many Austin couples seek this support while balancing demanding careers, long commutes, or the pressure of a fast-growing city.

A family therapist looks at the bigger picture. Sessions may include children, co-parents, or extended family, with a focus on how those dynamics impact the relationship. This approach is often helpful when parenting stress, blended families, or generational patterns are affecting the partnership.

At Louis Laves-Webb, LCSW-S, LPC-S & Associates, we provide both approaches, serving couples across Austin, TX, from downtown to Westlake, South Austin, and beyond. This allows us to match you with the right level of support based on what is actually impacting your relationship.

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Is Couples Therapy Really Worth It? Why Shouldn't We Just Break Up?

Many couples reach a point where they feel stuck, frustrated, or unsure what comes next. In a city like Austin, where work demands, relocation, and rapid growth can put pressure on relationships, it is easy for them to drift or break down. Couples therapy gives you a structured space to slow down, understand what is happening, and decide how to move forward.

In therapy, both partners have the chance to speak openly and be heard without escalation. You learn to communicate more clearly, identify patterns, and respond differently when conflict arises. Many couples begin to feel more connected and more in control of their relationship after just a few sessions.

Therapy provides clarity. Some couples rebuild their relationship, while others confidently choose a different path. Either way, you make decisions based on understanding and support for healthier outcomes.

What to Expect from Marriage Counseling in Austin, TX

Taking the First Step

Starting therapy can feel uncertain. Many couples feel afraid, overwhelmed, or unsure if anything will actually change. Taking the first step often comes after months or years of trying to handle life’s challenges on your own.

Your First Session

Your first session is focused on understanding your relationship. A compassionate therapist from our team will help you both talk through concerns, identify patterns, and become more aware of what is not working. This stage is about clarity, not pressure.

Building Momentum

As sessions continue, the process becomes more structured and collaborative. You will work through evidence-based approaches that help improve communication, reduce conflict, and create practical solutions you can use outside of therapy. Many couples begin to feel more equipped to cope with stress and respond differently during difficult moments.

Real Change Over Time

For couples across Austin, TX, including those managing demanding careers, growing families, or major life transitions, therapy provides space to reset. Over time, partners reconnect, deepen emotional intimacy, and move forward with more clarity. The goal is to improve well-being, strengthen the relationship, and build a partnership that supports long-term happiness.

Other Frequently Asked Questions About Couples & Marriage Counseling

When should we consider marriage or couples therapy?

If the same issues keep coming up and nothing changes, it is time to get support. Tension, distance, or constant miscommunication are signs that the relationship needs attention. Waiting often makes patterns harder to break and increases frustration over time. Early support can prevent deeper resentment from building.

How many couples therapy sessions are typically needed?

Many couples notice progress within 8 to 12 sessions. Early changes often show up in how conversations feel and how conflict is handled. The overall timeline depends on how engaged both partners are between sessions. Consistency tends to lead to faster, more stable progress.

What if my partner refuses or is hesitant about counseling?

Hesitation is common, especially if one person is unsure what to expect. Keeping the conversation direct and low-pressure can help reduce resistance. Even starting with one session can shift how your partner views the process. Framing it as support rather than a last resort often helps.

How does marriage counseling help me develop strategies for healthy communication?

You learn how to speak without triggering defensiveness and listen without shutting down. Sessions focus on breaking patterns that lead to frustration or avoidance. Over time, conversations feel clearer, calmer, and easier to navigate. This creates more trust in everyday interactions.

Does marriage counseling help with managing conflict?

Yes. Couples learn how to slow conflict down, respond with more control, and avoid escalation. This leads to fewer blowups and less emotional fatigue. Many couples also feel more confident handling difficult conversations without things getting out of hand. The result is a more stable and predictable dynamic.

Couples & Marriage Counseling for LGBTQIA+ Partners

Relationships come in many forms—and so should your therapy. Our LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Therapists provide supportive, inclusive counseling for couples navigating communication, conflict, and connection in all types of partnerships.

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How Our Patients Feel

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"Louis is a really great listener. He not only listens, but he HEARS you. I have never felt so understood by a therapist before. He is great at guiding you toward a more honest approach at an emotionally balanced life. He doesn't judge and is always welcoming. My appointments with Louis always left me feeling empowered and ready to face the week."

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"I’ve been going here consistently for several years and have been nothing short of amazed at the experience (and results)."

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Trust The Licensed Marriage Therapists at Louis Laves-Webb, LCSW-S, LPC-S

You do not have to stay stuck in the same patterns or keep carrying the same worry about where your relationship is headed. If you are committed to improving communication, rebuilding trust, and creating a more stable connection, the right support can make that progress feel possible.

At Louis Laves-Webb, LCSW-S, LPC-S & Associates, our licensed marriage therapists provide clear, practical guidance tailored to your relationship. The next step is simple. Contact our team, schedule your first session, and start moving forward with more clarity and confidence.

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3818 Spicewood Springs Road, Suite 300
Austin, TX 78759

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